What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:50
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Family Relation Age Play
Who writes and reads novels nowadays?
Please share Did you stop?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Why are the Chinese so sensitive to Western criticism?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
How can people balance religious beliefs with seeking professional mental health care?
*** Random Questions ***
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Are you afraid of being alone?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Why can’t my wife just accept the fact that I’m going to cheat?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
I want to have anal sex, but my wife refuses. What do I do?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
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If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Why do narcissist move on so easily?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Nothing too Serious
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would you read them together?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
29- How superstitious are you?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
*** Questions About Me ***
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
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41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
39~ What are your love languages?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
What is your favorite position? Why?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
If you win, what will you make them do?
If yes, what?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
52~ What are your hobbies?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Any that are a turn off?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
The Ice Breaker Questions
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
How old are you? Male or Female?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!